Let me just start by saying this should be a womans best artifical friend. This toy is absolutely amazing. You would not believe this thing actually sucks but it does. It mimics a sucking pattern, I am not really sure how but it does. Now it does have a dildo on the end of it. These are things I am not really into. I do run my hand across them, feel them, measure them, test the vibrator functions and etc to review. However, this would be a double wammy for a woman. Because you would get the oral pleasure plus the penetration at the same time. Oh, I guess triple the pleaure because there is sucking and vibration on both ends all at the same time. You would'nt believe these words I know, but all I can tell you is BUY IT! You will see for yourself, you can thank me later. Having a stressful day and your man or woman is not home, get you friend out. Stress be gone! Woosah!