This product is very nice for a couple of self pleasure to be honest. It is made to please both the male and femaile. The raised ridges are made to please the femaile, the ring the male and the actual housed bullet I do believe it is pleases both. It has 12 different vibrations and pulses. The actual feel of these can be intense or they can be soft and smooth. Just depends on what you choose and what you are looking for. The toy itself does not give off anytype of chemical smell the silicone usually gives off with these products. It has a very soothe touch and feel. The charging port is barely noticable and like most of the new technology is made withing the silicone so that it is not detectable and protected due to the waterproof status. I must say I really like the product and I would definitely recommend as some spice or fire for couples.