I was worried about purchasing a sex toy because I was scared that it would not be discreet and would be loud. I was wrong! I can easily fit this into my pocket or purse. The remote looks just like any other remote, so nobody has to know what it is truly for. The volume is so quit compared to what I thought it would be. My husband loves that he can change the vibrations with the remote. Honestly, this little toy has truly spiced up our love life.